There is a finite amount of energy you have to give in a day.
So give your energy to the things that matter the most: to your loved ones, to the things you are passionate about, to the things that glorify God. Follow your heart.
Many people spend their whole lives working towards something they think is the best when the best thing is actually right in front of them.
Open your eyes to the blessings you have and put your focus and energy on that!